Amazon Honor System Click Here to Pay Learn More The Competitive Sandwich

We're caught in the squeeze between good and bad

Excerpted from Transcompetition, by Harvey Robbins & Michael Finley, McGraw-Hill/Business Week Books, 1998

(c) by Harvey Robbins & Michael Finley

The modern world is a world of continuous struggle, in which every moment assigns us to either the winners or the losers column. And we seem to accept this. We are for it.

Indeed, we spend every day of our lives doing something to make ourselves more competitive. We see our task in our careers and in our lives is to press the competition throttle even harder, to become better at what we do, to master tricks to triumph over our rivals. We undergo weeks of training every year toward this end, we attend motivational seminars to fan the competitive flame inside us. We work 70-hour weeks to hone our competitive edge. We shell out money for everything from MBA degrees to give us credentials against our opponents, to athletic shoes to make us "more like Mike" -- to gain that extra step, that extra jolt of confidence that will allow us to win at will the way Michael Jordan seems to do.

The Dark Side of Competition

But there's a shadow side to competition that can't be dispelled. Say competition and one part of you feels excitement and fulfillment. It can be very beautiful and compelling. But there is another part of you that feels sorrow and dread.

For every individual who swears by competition, saying it is the law of nature, and the only way any person or any organization has ever amounted to anything, there are scores of others who swear at competition, saying it is the cause of a horrible lot of brutality and suffering, in the world and in the workplace.

But people don't attack competition much. The deck is stacked to be pro-competition; everyone in power got there by competing. Alfie Kohn's book was unique in taking on the topic. And he was often put in a very uncomfortable position, as if he were attacking America or defending communism or belittling masculinity. As Phil Donahue asked Kohn, "Aren't you just against competition because you are a loser?"

Here's a laundry list of the good things we attribute to competition. The list is long, and is interspersed with the side effects accompanying each competitive virtue. So this may be a good time to go make yourself a nice sandwich.

That's a lot of misgivings to have about the glue that supposedly holds western societies together. After all those pluses and minuses, you're probably confused -- is winning really winning? Can competition really be all that bad?

And is competition is all that bad, should we just stop doing it, as Alfie Kohn suggests? If we did that, is there another skill set we can turn to?

The offsetting skill set is collaboration, or cooperation, or teamwork. And it has been all the rage in management literature for the last few years. It is the heart of the teams, total quality, empowerment, and systems thinking movements. But it too has problems, as we shall see.

First, though, let's look at the range of impulses that stretch between competition and collaboration.


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